I have had the feeling for a while now that it seems more and more that we (as a nation I mean) skip right over Thanksgiving. Feels like we go from Halloween straight into Christmas, doesn't it?? Where in the world did Thanksgiving go?? Now, I have to confess, Thanksgiving does not rank up there with me like it does with some. It is some people's most favorite holiday of all. Me? I loooovvvee Christmas. And Halloween is so much fun now that I have a child. But Thanksgiving....eh.....not all that for me. But, having said that, it is still a requirement to participate in my family, and I always, well, usually, have a good time once I'm there! Well, the food is great, anyway!So anyway...in the spirit of doing my part to resurrect the holiday, I am the one cooking the turkey this year. Yes, my first. Wish me luck. So I get it out of the freezer the other night and as I am making room for it to defrost in the refrigerator it hits me...we are so blessed. I am moving food around to make room for more food. Wow. So so very blessed. And I turn around with actual tears in my eyes and say as much to Eric. And all of a sudden everything is moving in slow motion. I am in the moment. I am humbled. Literally brought to my knees. And the reason for the holiday is right there in that moment with me.
Thanksgiving.
No, it's not bright and shiny and no, there is really nothing about it that lures us to the stores. (grocery stores don't count!) There are no costumes, no widely celebrated rituals, (beyond the meal that is) no over the top decorating to be done. Nope. None of that. It is quiet. It lives in our hearts, and our rituals are simple and private. The gifts we give each other are the gifts of the beautiful preparation of food and the sharing of that same food with the same people year after year. If we are lucky, that is.
If we are really lucky and really blessed.
And most of us are.
Even when it seems as if everything is wrong we are given this day to remember all the things that are right. So my wish, my prayer, for you as you travel to be with family, or prepare your home for guests, as you stand and lovingly prepare the turkey and the dressing and the pumpkin pies, is that you are in the moment. Really in it. Experiencing each part in the now. That you make up your mind now, just as I did the other night as I stood in the open refrigerator, that this is not going to be just another "have to", something else to get through on the way from Halloween to Christmas, but that this Thanksgiving will stand on its own. And it will stand on its own because we are each standing in the moment...feeling oh so thankful and oh so abundantly blessed.
Happy, Happy Thanksgiving to you all.
Happy, Happy Thanksgiving to you all.













The snacks we offered....
The tree, a little autumnized, full of Art Girls....
A little shelf displaying my work....













